Preparing for baby's arrival can put a dent in your credit card if you're not careful. There's the basics to buy - car seat, crib, and diapers - and then all the frivolous items - adorable clothes, toys, and sweet blankets. Before pulling out your wallet next, ask yourself why you’re doing it. Here’s a quick gut-check for when you feel that urge to splurge on baby: What's my … [Read more...] about Don’t break the bank for baby
A birth plan for dad
OK, dad-to-be, with a baby on the way, there's something you need to know: What you do and don’t say during labor can save your life. Here's how to support your partner the best you can come delivery day. Do's and don'ts for labor Don't mention your partner’s bowel movement. Lie if you have to. She doesn’t want to know. Don't say “Wow, this has been going on for 10 … [Read more...] about A birth plan for dad
Your no-cost babymoon
She wants a weekend away before the baby comes. You’d rather put the cash toward that growing credit-card bill. Show her you can take care of it all with a super-deluxe, whatever-her-heart-desires babymoon—all from the comfort of your own home. If you’re not familiar with this word yet, you probably will be soon: “babymoon.” It’s a chance for the two of you to reconnect before … [Read more...] about Your no-cost babymoon
For dad: How to cope with your wife’s bed rest
Many of my lifestyle decisions are unhealthy. For example, I believe that New England clam chowder is a beverage. That’s why I always imagined my wife would be the first one on permanent bedpan duty. Like many men who are faced with the prospect of their partner being put on bed rest, I had no idea what I was up against. Honestly, it sounded quite relaxing. Medical school was a … [Read more...] about For dad: How to cope with your wife’s bed rest
Dad’s guide to childbirth
Even though today it’s customary for fathers to be involved in childbirth, birth stories are littered with the casualties of men who didn’t rise to the occasion—when push came to shove. Elissa Stein learned this the hard way. During her first birth, her husband did little more than snap photos. Later, packing up to leave the hospital, she looked over to see the nurses … [Read more...] about Dad’s guide to childbirth