Q: Since I became pregnant, I feel like my husband is more distant. He works more and isn’t as excited about the baby as I am. Is this normal?

A: Yes, this does happen. His focus on work might be how he’s processing his anxiety about supporting a family. And hormonal changes—designed to make you the ultimate bonder—could make you more sensitive to his distance.

It’s important to remember he’s not having the body and brain overhaul you are. Help him understand what you’re going through without blaming him. Assure him your neediness is natural and remind him that soon the tables will be turned: You’ll be so enamored with the baby that he’ll be the one feeling left out! Until then, involve him in the pregnancy by having him attend doctor’s appointments with you. And join a yoga or birth-prep class so you can build your mommy support group.